"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If a girl calls you perfect.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not necessarily. A girl calling you perfect or even too good for her can be a kiss of death. It is almost akin to LJBF in the proper context. I have been in situations where a girl gave me what seemed the ultimate compliment only to find out that she was not interested in me at all.

In fact, many women would rather have a relationship with or are attracted to flawed men since it is in their motherly nature to care for or fix problematic men. It seems counter untuitive, but it is true. Look at all the jerks, thugs, criminals, etc. and all other flawed types who are surrounded by hot girls and you will see my point.
 

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my first girlfriend said this to me shortly after we got together.. we were together a little over a year and we had sex regurarly.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tell her that you finally have something that you both agree on
 

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mrRuckus said:
What a girl says means almost nothing.

Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
 

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lookyoung said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words

Amen.

I have been told many things by women, including how great I am, how special, how perfect, blah blah blah, but when it came to the bottom line, they always seem to have excuses not to date, have sex, etc. They will say whatever you want to hear for whatever purpose they have in mind. Only when there is congruency between what they say and what they do (action) does a girls word have meaning or significance.

So, by her telling you that you are perfect, tell her to back it up with action, i,e sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HB: "your perfect"
your c0cky+funny response: "I know"
 

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lookyoung said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.

Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.

1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.


NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
"I'm an AFC" - lookyoung
 

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lol this happened recently.

one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

I've never seen her laugh so hard before. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

Into the quote file with you.

I'm gonna find a way to say something like that someday.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
lol this happened recently.

one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"

I've never seen her laugh so hard before. :)
SWEET hahaha. Thats definitely a good line:rockon:
 

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thanks guys :)

now keep in mind, normally when a girl says that, its her way of saying "Lets just be friends"... not so in this case

I sleep with her on a regular basis. the only reason she said that is cuz her and I arent dating. she actually has a bf already :p
 
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