"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If a girl calls you perfect.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
In fact, many women would rather have a relationship with or are attracted to flawed men since it is in their motherly nature to care for or fix problematic men. It seems counter untuitive, but it is true. Look at all the jerks, thugs, criminals, etc. and all other flawed types who are surrounded by hot girls and you will see my point.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Calypzo
Don Juan
3 months later, it ended. so much for that
dap
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mrRuckus said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.
Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.
1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.
NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
lookyoung said:
Amen.
I have been told many things by women, including how great I am, how special, how perfect, blah blah blah, but when it came to the bottom line, they always seem to have excuses not to date, have sex, etc. They will say whatever you want to hear for whatever purpose they have in mind. Only when there is congruency between what they say and what they do (action) does a girls word have meaning or significance.
So, by her telling you that you are perfect, tell her to back it up with action, i,e sex.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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This is the perfect opportunity to piss your pants. Than you won't be perfect anymore, therefore she won't hold back her animal sexual urges to rape your penis.crossboss said:
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"I'm an AFC" - lookyounglookyoung said:
THE_ADDMAN
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one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rebound Material
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SWEET hahaha. Thats definitely a good line:rockon:THE_ADDMAN said:lol this happened recently.
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
now keep in mind, normally when a girl says that, its her way of saying "Lets just be friends"... not so in this case
I sleep with her on a regular basis. the only reason she said that is cuz her and I arent dating. she actually has a bf already