"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If a girl calls you perfect.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In fact, many women would rather have a relationship with or are attracted to flawed men since it is in their motherly nature to care for or fix problematic men. It seems counter untuitive, but it is true. Look at all the jerks, thugs, criminals, etc. and all other flawed types who are surrounded by hot girls and you will see my point.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Calypzo
Don Juan
3 months later, it ended. so much for that
dap
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mrRuckus said:
Agree 100%. Never go by what a girl says but by what she does.
Some indicators to show a girl is really interested in you.
1. Has sex with you.
2. Calls you alot.
3. Never flakes.
4. Would rather be with you than her friends.
5. Is happy being with you no matter what you guys are doing.
NEVER GO BY WHAT GIRLS SAY>> Actions speak louder than words
lookyoung said:
Amen.
I have been told many things by women, including how great I am, how special, how perfect, blah blah blah, but when it came to the bottom line, they always seem to have excuses not to date, have sex, etc. They will say whatever you want to hear for whatever purpose they have in mind. Only when there is congruency between what they say and what they do (action) does a girls word have meaning or significance.
So, by her telling you that you are perfect, tell her to back it up with action, i,e sex.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This is the perfect opportunity to piss your pants. Than you won't be perfect anymore, therefore she won't hold back her animal sexual urges to rape your penis.crossboss said:
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"I'm an AFC" - lookyounglookyoung said:
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rebound Material
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SWEET hahaha. Thats definitely a good line:rockon:THE_ADDMAN said:lol this happened recently.
one time a good female friend of mine said "you're perfect... you're gonna make some girl very happy someday", so I responded with "yes, and probably a few of her friends, too"
I've never seen her laugh so hard before.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
now keep in mind, normally when a girl says that, its her way of saying "Lets just be friends"... not so in this case
I sleep with her on a regular basis. the only reason she said that is cuz her and I arent dating. she actually has a bf already