If a girl called you a boob...

[Giantsfan88]

A boob?

What would you think?

 

[christoff522]

What would you think?

Always depends on context!!

If she's saying it in a joking way she's teasing you.

If she's saying it non-chalantly she thinks you fail miserably at life.

 

[dasein]

Women will often start calling you playful names when they are getting infatuated and feel out of control, that they don't "have you" yet, goober, chief, gomer, slick, jerk, kid, bub, champ, tiger it's almost always a good sign.

But yes, does depend on context and not always a good sign, just usually.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

*standing close to her*

"A boob? No sweetie, you're the one with the awesome boobs", then proceed to feel her up while saying this.

 

[Mike32ct]

"Thanks. I like boobs."

 

[SummerNight]

A BOOB??? Hahahaa.. - that would be my real life answer also. Why the fck should she call you a BOOB? Anyways, if she would call me a boob I'd call her a ****

 

[TheGambino]

call her a noob, or tell her you got a big 'boob' for her

 

[Giantsfan88]

Women will often start calling you playful names when they are getting infatuated and feel out of control, that they don't "have you" yet, goober, chief, gomer, slick, jerk, kid, bub, champ, tiger it's almost always a good sign.

But yes, does depend on context and not always a good sign, just usually.

Like control of the frame?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Say "what did you say about my boobs!" Then grab her hand and have her feel your chest

"You like them man boobs don't you"

"I like mine better than yours, lets go find out.. ask this girl who has better boobs me or you."


It's something to work with if you just met her.. but if you know the b1tch she should be smacked lol jk

Sh1t test.. you gunna man up and lead with it or fail...

 

[logicallefty]

"I'll let you touch this boob if I can touch those boobs"

 

[dasein]

Like control of the frame?

Yes. They are not used to losing frame, are used to being supplicated to, not supplicating themselves, so when they aren't just being given the frame by the guy, they start up with kiddy type jabs to temper their own supplication and insecurity. They simply aren't used to it, so tells emerge, and those tells are usually of the infantilizing sort.

The next step requires some finesse. If you allow the limerence to boil over too much and increase, they will break. They will start behaving badly, jealousy games, whining, picking fights, trying to get -something- out of you, which will kill your attraction and fun. Before this point, provided you aren't tired of them and want them to break, you toss em a scrap, one sleepover, a dinner, a lengthier phone call or two, a small, cheap gift, and the finesse is involved in doing that BEFORE any bad behavior, else they start to condition to expecting to be rewarded for bad behavior, and never overdoing it. Make the condition subtly correlated with reward-worthy behavior. It's not complicated, just requires some forethought and attention. It's not manipulative any more than any negotiation is, they just don't realize the negotiation is ongoing, and you never ever tell them that.

 

[Giantsfan88]

Yes. They are not used to losing frame, are used to being supplicated to, not supplicating themselves, so when they aren't just being given the frame by the guy, they start up with kiddy type jabs to temper their own supplication and insecurity. They simply aren't used to it, so tells emerge, and those tells are usually of the infantilizing sort.

The next step requires some finesse. If you allow the limerence to boil over too much and increase, they will break. They will start behaving badly, jealousy games, whining, picking fights, trying to get -something- out of you, which will kill your attraction and fun. Before this point, provided you aren't tired of them and want them to break, you toss em a scrap, one sleepover, a dinner, a lengthier phone call or two, a small, cheap gift, and the finesse is involved in doing that BEFORE any bad behavior, else they start to condition to expecting to be rewarded for bad behavior, and never overdoing it. Make the condition subtly correlated with reward-worthy behavior. It's not complicated, just requires some forethought and attention. It's not manipulative any more than any negotiation is, they just don't realize the negotiation is ongoing, and you never ever tell them that.

what do you mean by "break?"

 

[RangerMIke]

"Thanks. I like boobs."

Perfect response. Bravo.

 

[dasein]

what do you mean by "break?"

Go crazy, start acting out, stalking, drop in unannounced, texting calling all day, that kind of thing. This is all provided you have done the seducing and sex correctly.

 

[Giantsfan88]

This is the context: girl cancelled date on me last minute because of bad weather but counter offered "Friday or Saturday or if we have to wait that's fine too," claiming she really wanted to do the day of. I responded "I know you want to and I just heard the roads are bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later." She responded "okay ya boob." No contact since and I want to invite her over on Sunday for Wednesday. But maybe I'm better off not chasing?