"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They are intimidated, show more emotion and approachability. This should probably moved to the other forum.
 
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Could someone elaborate a bit more on how to be more approachable?
 
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Intrakit98 said:
Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
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Start by posting in the correct forum.
 
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Be more approachable by smiling with relaxed body language. Do not be robotic but look attentitive and at ease. Come across as easy-going and playful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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