"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Intrakit98

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Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They are intimidated, show more emotion and approachability. This should probably moved to the other forum.
 

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Could someone elaborate a bit more on how to be more approachable?
 

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Intrakit98 said:
Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
Start by posting in the correct forum.
 

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Be more approachable by smiling with relaxed body language. Do not be robotic but look attentitive and at ease. Come across as easy-going and playful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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