"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They are intimidated, show more emotion and approachability. This should probably moved to the other forum.
 
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Could someone elaborate a bit more on how to be more approachable?
 
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Intrakit98 said:
Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
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Start by posting in the correct forum.
 
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Be more approachable by smiling with relaxed body language. Do not be robotic but look attentitive and at ease. Come across as easy-going and playful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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