"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Intrakit98

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Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They are intimidated, show more emotion and approachability. This should probably moved to the other forum.
 

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Could someone elaborate a bit more on how to be more approachable?
 

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Intrakit98 said:
Girls seem to see me as a "high standard" guy although I'm not.I act alpha male which I am. So even if they are interested they don't do anything not even smile.Just look at me with blank stares. And Idk what to do to change that how they see me. Any suggestions? Help.
Start by posting in the correct forum.
 

tmpgstx

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Be more approachable by smiling with relaxed body language. Do not be robotic but look attentitive and at ease. Come across as easy-going and playful.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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