“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wonder why

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

JLR

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Metro3pilot said:
you know exactly what I'm saying Guru .......

not many, but some woman .... I can't visualize a positive outcome and that leads to " Paralisys by analisys "

It bugs the shyt out of me and I'm trying to change it because I know it's cost me more than a few times

:rockon:
Just curious what exactly you mean by "cost me." See, IMO, that's the root of most men's "problems" w/ women--so many of men equate their self-worth w/ the woman their with, or NOT with. Once you quit making women the center of everything you do, i.e., the things preached by true DJs (i.e. self-improvement for your own benefit), the things underlying your lack of self-confidence will seem to dissipate. Spoin those plates!! And I don't mean just having more & more women on rotation--I mean having other interests/goals.
 

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squirrels said:
It's a confidence issue. Too many men have been convinced these days that women find them ignorant and disgusting by nature and that they have to do something to "compensate for their intrusion".

Yeah, this is a feeling that i'm trying to bury. For some reason I hate the thought of a girl thinking i'm hitting on her or interested in her. I mostly think it's because i hate someone having the upper hand on me. I worry about it even more if the girl is worse looking than me but not by a lot. Oh no the beneath me chick thinks i want her!! How dare she think i'm in her league! Her lucky day this is not! But if she is the one initially showing interest than i feel she has no upper hand since she's displayed her interest already, and thus i'm comfortable.

Is this fear of rejection? I don't fear rejection really... i just get angry by it :p "What! I am awesome! How dare you!"

This is actually a newer phenomenon because this didn't used to happen. Why would i care more about what she thinks about that now than i used to? Probably because i understand women better and know how evil they are so i'm more guarded about what they get to know.

I intellectually realize though that WHO CARES what people think since it really has no effect on me.. this becomes more and more of me as times goes on and hopefully i can bury the dumb feeling once and for all soon. I feel retarded with kino too, but i never felt like i needed it much...
 
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