"I want to get to know you"

[Hurrican]

I thought this was a great direct "pick up" line.

The girl will like your confidence and shjit like that.

What do u think? I only used it once.

 

[Serialized3]

I think you should just play her the chorus from that G-Unit song off your cell:

"I wanna get to know ya -- I really wanna **** you, bay-beh"

 

[Hurrican]

uh wtf. that would be lame

 

[Bourne]

I think you should go out, try the line 20 times and see if you succeed. Then post the Field Report of your adventures. That would be much better. Tell us if it works or not.

 

[blinkwatt]

I thought this was a great direct "pick up" line.

The girl will like your confidence and shjit like that.

What do u think? I only used it once.

I would not use this. I personally play minds games with girls through words and not answering my phone,thus being my push. Now I always leave the part of me "wanting" or "getting to get to know them" them in what I do physically,thus being my pull. Never say what you want,act what you want physically. The moment you express what you want verbally she knows you are hooked.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

That reeks major lameness.

Obviously by approaching her you want to get to know her. You don't need to tell her.

 

[everywomanshero]

I did this tonight... i think you are beautiful and I'd like to get to know you. Worked fine. It's all state based game anyway. My state determines the success of the sarge more so than any other variable. Guys with good state can open direct, and it works a lot. Also newbs may do better initially with direct because it is conceptually easier to digest at first. No big deal, everything must be field tested just to see how it feels to use different techniques. It's exciting to change it up.

 

[Hurrican]

I would not use this. I personally play minds games with girls through words and not answering my phone,thus being my push. Now I always leave the part of me "wanting" or "getting to get to know them" them in what I do physically,thus being my pull. Never say what you want,act what you want physically. The moment you express what you want verbally she knows you are hooked.

thx bro good advice

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

On top of that mixed signals would be great,be sexual etc and when you get the # say, "we'll make great friends" or something of the sort.But don't do this the other way around, act friendly and then confess your undying love for her.That doesn't work (afc ) and thats why the opposite does.

 

[Jack Bauer]

Hey Hurrican,

I think it's a great line to use, if you have no other natural way of approaching the girl. It's simple, and sounds sincere. :rockon:

But here's the main problem, I see with it. While it will work as a opener, it could mess your game up with the target girl afterwords. Because it's giving her to much leverage. IE: She knows you want her already. It gives her no challenge, no mystery, and makes her, not you, the Prize to be won. :nono:

But don't sweat it, I think it will work great with one little tweak to the "line."

Here it is: Approach girl:
"Hi, I'm Hurrican. Would you like to get to know ME better?" :rockon:

See how, this sets the right frame? Hell, I think I'm going to try this opener this weekend.

 

[Charm]

"Hi, I'm Hurrican. Would you like to get to know ME better?"

That is a solid opener that requires a continued solid followthrough. It is a chance to develop some rapport and setup a date.

Keep in mind that this opener is useful when you've already made eye contact, you smiled or had some sense that she wanted to speak with you in the first place. It's not a great idea for cases where she's reading a book and you tap her on the shoulder, she looks over to see your face glaring at hers "Hi, im bob, want to get to know me better?"

It does however generate several quick "How do you suggest I do that?" "Sure, what can you tell me about yourself? "I dont know. Should I?" "What is there to know about you?"

 

[Jariel]

I think you should go out, try the line 20 times and see if you succeed. Then post the Field Report of your adventures. That would be much better. Tell us if it works or not.

I completely agree. The only way to know and to develop experience is to get out and experiment with your theories. Even if they fail, you have just gained field experience that will serve you well in future.

There seems to be a lot of "I'd say this" or "I'd do that" kind of advice on this board, but what really counts is the past tense advice that says "I DID this" or "I TRIED that".