"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"I want to get to know you"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serialized3
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"I wanna get to know ya -- I really wanna **** you, bay-beh"
I would not use this. I personally play minds games with girls through words and not answering my phone,thus being my push. Now I always leave the part of me "wanting" or "getting to get to know them" them in what I do physically,thus being my pull. Never say what you want,act what you want physically. The moment you express what you want verbally she knows you are hooked.Hurrican said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
WORKEROUTER
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Obviously by approaching her you want to get to know her. You don't need to tell her.
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I think it's a great line to use, if you have no other natural way of approaching the girl. It's simple, and sounds sincere. :rockon:
But here's the main problem, I see with it. While it will work as a opener, it could mess your game up with the target girl afterwords. Because it's giving her to much leverage. IE: She knows you want her already. It gives her no challenge, no mystery, and makes her, not you, the Prize to be won. :nono:
But don't sweat it, I think it will work great with one little tweak to the "line."
Here it is: Approach girl:
"Hi, I'm Hurrican. Would you like to get to know ME better?" :rockon:
See how, this sets the right frame? Hell, I think I'm going to try this opener this weekend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That is a solid opener that requires a continued solid followthrough. It is a chance to develop some rapport and setup a date.
Keep in mind that this opener is useful when you've already made eye contact, you smiled or had some sense that she wanted to speak with you in the first place. It's not a great idea for cases where she's reading a book and you tap her on the shoulder, she looks over to see your face glaring at hers "Hi, im bob, want to get to know me better?"
It does however generate several quick "How do you suggest I do that?" "Sure, what can you tell me about yourself? "I dont know. Should I?" "What is there to know about you?"
I completely agree. The only way to know and to develop experience is to get out and experiment with your theories. Even if they fail, you have just gained field experience that will serve you well in future.Bourne said:
There seems to be a lot of "I'd say this" or "I'd do that" kind of advice on this board, but what really counts is the past tense advice that says "I DID this" or "I TRIED that".