Like I don't idk,embrace it. I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.I don't know what this is,it's making me nuts. It's like,I want it,but I don't go for it. Idk if it's anxiety,or bad past social experiences. I do know this,I want to be honest and genuine though.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think I have some sort of weird sexuality problems...
- Thread starter ItsOnNow
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
There's your problem. Stop looking at porn. If you feel that it is having a negative effect on your sex drive then stop the porn.ItsOnNow said:I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LostAndConfused
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I quit for three weeks last year. In those three weeks I had more opportunities than a whole year when it comes to women. Of course back then I didn't have the balls to do anything with those opportunities, but the point is, not masturbating is a good thing. I'm working on stopping now
DonGorgon
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Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...Groovy said:Stop jerking off. .
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats because they have no options.DonGorgon said:Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
Go to the masturbation thread and read it until you are motivated to stop jacking off. There are many good reasons to stop choking the chicken. Your problem here is laziness.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.