Like I don't idk,embrace it. I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.I don't know what this is,it's making me nuts. It's like,I want it,but I don't go for it. Idk if it's anxiety,or bad past social experiences. I do know this,I want to be honest and genuine though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think I have some sort of weird sexuality problems...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
There's your problem. Stop looking at porn. If you feel that it is having a negative effect on your sex drive then stop the porn.ItsOnNow said:I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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I quit for three weeks last year. In those three weeks I had more opportunities than a whole year when it comes to women. Of course back then I didn't have the balls to do anything with those opportunities, but the point is, not masturbating is a good thing. I'm working on stopping now
DonGorgon
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Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...Groovy said:Stop jerking off. .
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats because they have no options.DonGorgon said:Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
Go to the masturbation thread and read it until you are motivated to stop jacking off. There are many good reasons to stop choking the chicken. Your problem here is laziness.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.