Like I don't idk,embrace it. I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.I don't know what this is,it's making me nuts. It's like,I want it,but I don't go for it. Idk if it's anxiety,or bad past social experiences. I do know this,I want to be honest and genuine though.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I think I have some sort of weird sexuality problems...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
There's your problem. Stop looking at porn. If you feel that it is having a negative effect on your sex drive then stop the porn.ItsOnNow said:I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
LostAndConfused
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I quit for three weeks last year. In those three weeks I had more opportunities than a whole year when it comes to women. Of course back then I didn't have the balls to do anything with those opportunities, but the point is, not masturbating is a good thing. I'm working on stopping now
DonGorgon
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Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...Groovy said:Stop jerking off. .
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats because they have no options.DonGorgon said:Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
Go to the masturbation thread and read it until you are motivated to stop jacking off. There are many good reasons to stop choking the chicken. Your problem here is laziness.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.