Like I don't idk,embrace it. I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.I don't know what this is,it's making me nuts. It's like,I want it,but I don't go for it. Idk if it's anxiety,or bad past social experiences. I do know this,I want to be honest and genuine though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think I have some sort of weird sexuality problems...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
There's your problem. Stop looking at porn. If you feel that it is having a negative effect on your sex drive then stop the porn.ItsOnNow said:I don't go with the desires I want. Instead,I just jerk off to porn all the time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LostAndConfused
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I quit for three weeks last year. In those three weeks I had more opportunities than a whole year when it comes to women. Of course back then I didn't have the balls to do anything with those opportunities, but the point is, not masturbating is a good thing. I'm working on stopping now
DonGorgon
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Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...Groovy said:Stop jerking off. .
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats because they have no options.DonGorgon said:Stop eating sweets and breathing air too...LOL its that hard for some...
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
Go to the masturbation thread and read it until you are motivated to stop jacking off. There are many good reasons to stop choking the chicken. Your problem here is laziness.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.