bilboteabaggins
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psst I got all you MFers beat...LMAO
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I see where this is going, so why not...post your pics here!
- Thread starter Gray The Prince
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chickfight
Senior Don Juan
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Alright, let's put some faces to names.
These are from my fb.
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/373/n7090418448722666775.jpg
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/3349/16872818019079326571388.jpg
http://img248.imageshack.us/img248/152/10959179309941844709041.jpg
http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7984/me2om.jpg
http://img41.imageshack.us/img41/7797/10959192375351844709041.jpg
http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/7074/me3tu.jpg
http://img833.imageshack.us/img833/9103/75320552.jpg
Yeah gotta hit up the gym more, but I'm an ectomorph all the way. I have to stuff myself every day to put on weight.
These are from my fb.
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/373/n7090418448722666775.jpg
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/3349/16872818019079326571388.jpg
http://img248.imageshack.us/img248/152/10959179309941844709041.jpg
http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7984/me2om.jpg
http://img41.imageshack.us/img41/7797/10959192375351844709041.jpg
http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/7074/me3tu.jpg
http://img833.imageshack.us/img833/9103/75320552.jpg
Yeah gotta hit up the gym more, but I'm an ectomorph all the way. I have to stuff myself every day to put on weight.
cute cute cute cute cute cuteChickfight said:
http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7984/me2om.jpg keanu reeves much?
not exclusively, sometimes i see someone i agree with and say so...Robyn923b said:
and a debate with everybody comforting each other in their vision of things is never going anywhere
(for example this thread is probably going nowhere but it satisfies curiosity)
oh and i'm not a sick guy, i'm actually the person in the pics
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JohnnyStrabler
Don Juan
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Chickfight said:
Me too
I can eat whatever I want as much as I want lol
http://i53.tinypic.com/2re16v9.jpg
I am not big on pictures....I dont know, I dont like them.
Introverts FTW?
JohnnyStrabler
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powpow said:
she is 17 lmao
why dont you take a seat over there, take a seat right there....
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
'i'm not a sick guy'BBbardot said:not exclusively, sometimes i see someone i agree with and say so...
and a debate with everybody comforting each other in their vision of things is never going anywhere
(for example this thread is probably going nowhere but it satisfies curiosity)
oh and i'm not a sick guy, i'm actually the person in the pics
thats what all guys pretending to be girls on the internet say. =/
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hold a poster that says 'im bbardot' and take a picture and post it here, then i'll believe you.BBbardot said:
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Post pics or you're just bull-sh!tting.bilboteabaggins said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
I would post a pic but I love the anonimity of the internet too much.Gray The Prince said:
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
LOLSamTheHobit said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
This is a quite old pic, but it's the only one in my photobucket account so dealwithit.gif
http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/2005-09-09/8a23.jpg in the middle. this is what.. a 6 year old picture. I'm actually bigger than that now, lose the braids, actually dressed like a grown up. the two dudes are my old best friends. And for you haters, you can check my account as I've posted the same picture here before years ago.
http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg girl on the far right is my fiancee that I get harped on for talking about too much.
http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/2005-09-09/8a23.jpg in the middle. this is what.. a 6 year old picture. I'm actually bigger than that now, lose the braids, actually dressed like a grown up. the two dudes are my old best friends. And for you haters, you can check my account as I've posted the same picture here before years ago.
http://i237.photobucket.com/albums/ff85/strawberryroad/vacation/londonnightclub.jpg girl on the far right is my fiancee that I get harped on for talking about too much.
If that's really you.....wow....give a dude some tips on health & fitness.JohnnyStrabler said:Me too
I can eat whatever I want as much as I want lol
http://i53.tinypic.com/2re16v9.jpg
I am not big on pictures....I dont know, I dont like them.
Introverts FTW?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.