bilboteabaggins
Don Juan
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psst I got all you MFers beat...LMAO
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
oopsKorrupt said:Attention wh0re..
cute cute cute cute cute cuteChickfight said:Alright, let's put some faces to names.
These are from my fb.
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/373/n7090418448722666775.jpg
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/3349/16872818019079326571388.jpg
http://img248.imageshack.us/img248/152/10959179309941844709041.jpg
http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7984/me2om.jpg
http://img41.imageshack.us/img41/7797/10959192375351844709041.jpg
http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/7074/me3tu.jpg
http://img833.imageshack.us/img833/9103/75320552.jpg
Yeah gotta hit up the gym more, but I'm an ectomorph all the way. I have to stuff myself every day to put on weight.
not exclusively, sometimes i see someone i agree with and say so...Robyn923b said:She just says the opposite of what everyone else is saying. Call her an AW troll haha
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chickfight said:Alright, let's put some faces to names.
These are from my fb.
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/373/n7090418448722666775.jpg
http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/3349/16872818019079326571388.jpg
http://img248.imageshack.us/img248/152/10959179309941844709041.jpg
http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7984/me2om.jpg
http://img41.imageshack.us/img41/7797/10959192375351844709041.jpg
http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/7074/me3tu.jpg
http://img833.imageshack.us/img833/9103/75320552.jpg
Yeah gotta hit up the gym more, but I'm an ectomorph all the way. I have to stuff myself every day to put on weight.
i'm glad ONE person appreciates it^^powpow said:I think this girl (or weird sick **** who is impersonating one) understands the fact that I would rather look at tits than a fully clothed woman. props.
Chickfight said:Yeah gotta hit up the gym more, but I'm an ectomorph all the way. I have to stuff myself every day to put on weight.
powpow said:I think this girl (or weird sick **** who is impersonating one) understands the fact that I would rather look at tits than a fully clothed woman. props.
'i'm not a sick guy'BBbardot said:not exclusively, sometimes i see someone i agree with and say so...
and a debate with everybody comforting each other in their vision of things is never going anywhere
(for example this thread is probably going nowhere but it satisfies curiosity)
oh and i'm not a sick guy, i'm actually the person in the pics
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
if not convinced ask me a proofSamTheHobit said:'i'm not a sick guy'
thats what all guys pretending to be girls on the internet say. =/
Hold a poster that says 'im bbardot' and take a picture and post it here, then i'll believe you.BBbardot said:if not convinced ask me a proof
i will edit this post with the pic in it when im homeSamTheHobit said:Hold a poster that says im bbardot and take a picture and post it here then i'll believe you.
Post pics or you're just bull-sh!tting.bilboteabaggins said:psst I got all you MFers beat...LMAO
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would post a pic but I love the anonimity of the internet too much.Gray The Prince said:Post pics or you're just bull-sh!tting.
LOLSamTheHobit said:I would post a pic but I love the anonimity of the internet too much.
If that's really you.....wow....give a dude some tips on health & fitness.JohnnyStrabler said:Me too
I can eat whatever I want as much as I want lol
http://i53.tinypic.com/2re16v9.jpg
I am not big on pictures....I dont know, I dont like them.
Introverts FTW?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.