Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"SunnyD said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.SunnyD said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?SunnyD said:
She has too much "Self Respect" for that. and she is attractive with a vagina. She needs no luck.sav said:hey Sunny,
if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me
that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards...
all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
I personally feel that cunnilingus and intercourse are on the same level, as far as sexuality. In fact, I consider cunnilingus or fellatio even more intimate. The vagina is meant for a penis. The mouth is meant for food, not tongues.SunnyD said:
i am glad there are women who let strangers do sexual things to them.....SunnyD said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!sav said:dont mind jack, he's still a virgin
JackPrescott said:
hahahahahaha....sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
2 hump chump.DonGorgon said:
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
sav said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.