Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"SunnyD said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.SunnyD said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?SunnyD said:
She has too much "Self Respect" for that. and she is attractive with a vagina. She needs no luck.sav said:hey Sunny,
if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me
that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards...
all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
I personally feel that cunnilingus and intercourse are on the same level, as far as sexuality. In fact, I consider cunnilingus or fellatio even more intimate. The vagina is meant for a penis. The mouth is meant for food, not tongues.SunnyD said:
i am glad there are women who let strangers do sexual things to them.....SunnyD said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!sav said:dont mind jack, he's still a virgin
JackPrescott said:
hahahahahaha....sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
2 hump chump.DonGorgon said:
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
sav said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.