She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"SunnyD said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.SunnyD said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?SunnyD said:
She has too much "Self Respect" for that. and she is attractive with a vagina. She needs no luck.sav said:hey Sunny,
if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me
that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards...
all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
I personally feel that cunnilingus and intercourse are on the same level, as far as sexuality. In fact, I consider cunnilingus or fellatio even more intimate. The vagina is meant for a penis. The mouth is meant for food, not tongues.SunnyD said:
i am glad there are women who let strangers do sexual things to them.....SunnyD said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!sav said:dont mind jack, he's still a virgin
JackPrescott said:
hahahahahaha....sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
2 hump chump.DonGorgon said:
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
sav said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.