Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"SunnyD said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.SunnyD said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?SunnyD said:
She has too much "Self Respect" for that. and she is attractive with a vagina. She needs no luck.sav said:hey Sunny,
if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me
that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards...
all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
I personally feel that cunnilingus and intercourse are on the same level, as far as sexuality. In fact, I consider cunnilingus or fellatio even more intimate. The vagina is meant for a penis. The mouth is meant for food, not tongues.SunnyD said:
i am glad there are women who let strangers do sexual things to them.....SunnyD said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!sav said:dont mind jack, he's still a virgin
JackPrescott said:
hahahahahaha....sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
2 hump chump.DonGorgon said:
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.sav said:lol, im a virgin so you are correct
sav said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.