Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SunnyD said:
I'd agree we're as horny, and I'd agree that I could go out on any given weekend and pickup. (not being vain here, but I don't have problems.) BUT...I have always had a thing against bringing a guy home from a bar. I just won't do it. If I am desperate and haven't been laid in months, yeah maybe...but for now, I'd rather find that guy at the laundromat or grocery store.

And yes, I AM very picky. I end up "making out" (f**kin hate that term) with guys all the time at bars...but I won't bring one home with me for a one-nighter.
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JackPrescott said:
As we say at the Rehab I work at "You are creating your own problems" BTW, making out with men and not fukking them is vulgar on your part. You are known in the business as a "Cocckktease"
Why?? Because I won't fukk them the first night? I never said I wasn't giving my number and fukking them at a later time.... once I got to know them more than what I saw through beer goggles.
 

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SunnyD said:
Why?? Because I won't fukk them the first night? I never said I wasn't giving my number and fukking them at a later time.... once I got to know them more than what I saw through beer goggles.
Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.
 

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Thats the difference between women and men. IF I was not stuck in this horrible "Twilight Zone" city of 6 to 1 male to female ratio, and I had your options? I could go to the bar or poolhall on an average Tuesday, and simply find a woman who wanted sex as well, we stop at Circle K for a package of Trojans, fukk like mad bunnies, and go our way afterwards. No strings attatched, mind blowing, stress relieiving sexx. With you, and your Outer Limits mentality, you have to go through an entire mating ritual, just so he can enter an orifice other than your mouth.
Yeah, I guess that is the difference...

Self respect.
 

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hey Sunny,

if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me ;)

that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards... :p


all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SunnyD said:
Yeah, I guess that is the difference...

Self respect.
No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?
 

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sav said:
hey Sunny,

if you're ever feeling horny hun, you can call me ;)

that is, if ur pretty.. i do have high standards... :p


all jokes aside, i think u should just drop the issue and cut all ties with that person... no need to get further involved in a crappy situation.. u were USED for sex... thats probably not fun... good luck.
She has too much "Self Respect" for that. and she is attractive with a vagina. She needs no luck.
 

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No. If you had any self respect you would not allow a stranger to put an organ of his into your mouth in a public place. I say, what is the difference between the tongue and the penis?
Oh please, there is a huge difference.
 

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SunnyD said:
Oh please, there is a huge difference.
I personally feel that cunnilingus and intercourse are on the same level, as far as sexuality. In fact, I consider cunnilingus or fellatio even more intimate. The vagina is meant for a penis. The mouth is meant for food, not tongues.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dont mind jack, he's still a virgin ;)
 

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sav said:
dont mind jack, he's still a virgin ;)
LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!
 

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LOL!!! I have forgotten more Kama Sutra techniques with more women in a summer season that you will get this year!!!
lol, im a virgin so you are correct :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sav said:
lol, im a virgin so you are correct :(
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.
 

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JackPrescott said:
Just some advice. Dont let women know this outside of this website. Just trying to help. Help me, help you.

really? when i meet a girl, thats the first thing i tell her... even before i tell her my name.. i proclaim my virginity and how clean i am...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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