inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
Why bother asking here?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I lost my virginity today
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
universal dawah
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because I want some good books that tells the process
inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
It's all good books, and no one will tell you a step-by-step process, you will have to learn it and it has to come from within. You need to read the books so that you know better and become better. You need self-improvement and experience. The process of understanding women begins with YOU.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
It's by learning the theory that you can apply the process to your life. Not the other way around.
If you are look for a quick fix, then sorry to disappoint you but there isn't. It requires loads of work to get good at something.
No one here on ss can help you if you are not willing to "pay the price" of hard work.
In this case learning how to do it and then go out and apply that knowledge to the real world by the repetition of failure/rejection and success.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Pu$$y feels amazing. Literally the best thing in the world. But, I think doing it with a prostitue for the first time would lessen the experience. And yeah, no porn, no fap is essential.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
universal dawah
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hard for a teenager
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Hard for me too.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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$15?
universal dawah
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universal dawah
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what should I do when I have urges to fap?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Serenity
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Anything else. You'll struggle for sure, but you can do it. The point is to force yourself into a corner where you want release, but don't allow yourself to do it by your own hand so you'll be extremely motivated to find an alternative (someone to fvck). If you're horny enough you don't give a sh!t about anxiety as much anymore, and somehow you get a lot more creative in your ways to find someone to fvck.
universal dawah
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I stay at home all the day and use internet so what else can I do when I am horny?
Serenity
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The answer is obvious, go out to meet women.
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