inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
Why bother asking here?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I lost my virginity today
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
universal dawah
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because I want some good books that tells the process
inquisitor
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It's all good books, and no one will tell you a step-by-step process, you will have to learn it and it has to come from within. You need to read the books so that you know better and become better. You need self-improvement and experience. The process of understanding women begins with YOU.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
It's by learning the theory that you can apply the process to your life. Not the other way around.
If you are look for a quick fix, then sorry to disappoint you but there isn't. It requires loads of work to get good at something.
No one here on ss can help you if you are not willing to "pay the price" of hard work.
In this case learning how to do it and then go out and apply that knowledge to the real world by the repetition of failure/rejection and success.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Pu$$y feels amazing. Literally the best thing in the world. But, I think doing it with a prostitue for the first time would lessen the experience. And yeah, no porn, no fap is essential.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
universal dawah
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hard for a teenager
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Hard for me too.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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$15?
universal dawah
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universal dawah
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what should I do when I have urges to fap?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Serenity
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Anything else. You'll struggle for sure, but you can do it. The point is to force yourself into a corner where you want release, but don't allow yourself to do it by your own hand so you'll be extremely motivated to find an alternative (someone to fvck). If you're horny enough you don't give a sh!t about anxiety as much anymore, and somehow you get a lot more creative in your ways to find someone to fvck.
universal dawah
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I stay at home all the day and use internet so what else can I do when I am horny?
Serenity
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The answer is obvious, go out to meet women.
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