"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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because I want some good books that tells the process
It's all good books, and no one will tell you a step-by-step process, you will have to learn it and it has to come from within. You need to read the books so that you know better and become better. You need self-improvement and experience. The process of understanding women begins with YOU.
 

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it was all about theory not step by step process
It's by learning the theory that you can apply the process to your life. Not the other way around.
If you are look for a quick fix, then sorry to disappoint you but there isn't. It requires loads of work to get good at something.

boring and I stopped reading after few pages
No one here on ss can help you if you are not willing to "pay the price" of hard work.

In this case learning how to do it and then go out and apply that knowledge to the real world by the repetition of failure/rejection and success.
 

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Pu$$y feels amazing. Literally the best thing in the world. But, I think doing it with a prostitue for the first time would lessen the experience. And yeah, no porn, no fap is essential.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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what should I do when I have urges to fap?
Anything else. You'll struggle for sure, but you can do it. The point is to force yourself into a corner where you want release, but don't allow yourself to do it by your own hand so you'll be extremely motivated to find an alternative (someone to fvck). If you're horny enough you don't give a sh!t about anxiety as much anymore, and somehow you get a lot more creative in your ways to find someone to fvck.
 

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The rational male helped me go from basically a virgin to good at seducing women. If you think it's boring then the entire manosphere isn't for you.
 
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Anything else. You'll struggle for sure, but you can do it. The point is to force yourself into a corner where you want release, but don't allow yourself to do it by your own hand so you'll be extremely motivated to find an alternative (someone to fvck). If you're horny enough you don't give a sh!t about anxiety as much anymore, and somehow you get a lot more creative in your ways to find someone to fvck.
I stay at home all the day and use internet so what else can I do when I am horny?
 
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