inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
Why bother asking here?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I lost my virginity today
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
universal dawah
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because I want some good books that tells the process
inquisitor
Senior Don Juan
It's all good books, and no one will tell you a step-by-step process, you will have to learn it and it has to come from within. You need to read the books so that you know better and become better. You need self-improvement and experience. The process of understanding women begins with YOU.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
It's by learning the theory that you can apply the process to your life. Not the other way around.
If you are look for a quick fix, then sorry to disappoint you but there isn't. It requires loads of work to get good at something.
No one here on ss can help you if you are not willing to "pay the price" of hard work.
In this case learning how to do it and then go out and apply that knowledge to the real world by the repetition of failure/rejection and success.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Pu$$y feels amazing. Literally the best thing in the world. But, I think doing it with a prostitue for the first time would lessen the experience. And yeah, no porn, no fap is essential.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
universal dawah
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hard for a teenager
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Hard for me too.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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$15?
universal dawah
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universal dawah
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what should I do when I have urges to fap?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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Anything else. You'll struggle for sure, but you can do it. The point is to force yourself into a corner where you want release, but don't allow yourself to do it by your own hand so you'll be extremely motivated to find an alternative (someone to fvck). If you're horny enough you don't give a sh!t about anxiety as much anymore, and somehow you get a lot more creative in your ways to find someone to fvck.
universal dawah
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I stay at home all the day and use internet so what else can I do when I am horny?
Serenity
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The answer is obvious, go out to meet women.
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