"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I let slip the fact I didn't know her name

HairyBear

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Long story short, I used the wrong name addressing a cute girl in my work. I actually didn't know her name, and that was obvious from the interaction.

She had been indicating interest, which I never reciprocated. After that she went very cold.

Now, six weeks later she is warming up. I was away for the middle 4 weeks of that 6 weeks.

The female landscape has changed and I might be interested in banging her.

In your experience, how much of a grudge do women hold from a faux Pas like that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GrowingPains

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Breh...

Ask her what her name is and relax.

Who cares if she holds a grudge about it. If she's that petty then that's your green light to forget about her anyways.
 
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Its not bad but it all depends on how you handle it imo.

Next time ask her in a confident idgaf if it upset you way.
 
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I once told a girl on our 2nd date, “nice to meet you”. She laughed it off and thought to herself, geez how many girls is this guy dating that he forgot he went out with me a few days ago. We’re actually in a relationship now Lol. I would just bust her balls about it, if she brings it up. Cindy? I’m sorry Mindy? Or was it Linda?! Something along those lines. If she can’t laugh about it then she is uptight.
 
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I established contact. She went out of her way to be friendly just now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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Be careful with banging women at work...it usually goes very badly in the end regardless of how it starts
 
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If you DO bang her, don't tell anyone at work, keep everything to yourself.... guys are always running their mouth about what they have going on, and thats what gets them in trouble a lot of times.

I had a friend in highschool who smashed our art teacher, dude ran his mouth telling everyone and ruined it
 
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