I let slip the fact I didn't know her name

[HairyBear]

Long story short, I used the wrong name addressing a cute girl in my work. I actually didn't know her name, and that was obvious from the interaction.

She had been indicating interest, which I never reciprocated. After that she went very cold.

Now, six weeks later she is warming up. I was away for the middle 4 weeks of that 6 weeks.

The female landscape has changed and I might be interested in banging her.

In your experience, how much of a grudge do women hold from a faux Pas like that?

 

[GrowingPains]

Breh...

Ask her what her name is and relax.

Who cares if she holds a grudge about it. If she's that petty then that's your green light to forget about her anyways.

 

[lamath]

Its not bad but it all depends on how you handle it imo.

Next time ask her in a confident idgaf if it upset you way.

 

[Mazer]

I once told a girl on our 2nd date, “nice to meet you”. She laughed it off and thought to herself, geez how many girls is this guy dating that he forgot he went out with me a few days ago. We’re actually in a relationship now Lol. I would just bust her balls about it, if she brings it up. Cindy? I’m sorry Mindy? Or was it Linda?! Something along those lines. If she can’t laugh about it then she is uptight.

 

[HairyBear]

I established contact. She went out of her way to be friendly just now.

 

[marmel75]

Be careful with banging women at work...it usually goes very badly in the end regardless of how it starts

 

[17 shots]

If you DO bang her, don't tell anyone at work, keep everything to yourself.... guys are always running their mouth about what they have going on, and thats what gets them in trouble a lot of times.

I had a friend in highschool who smashed our art teacher, dude ran his mouth telling everyone and ruined it