"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I let slip the fact I didn't know her name

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Long story short, I used the wrong name addressing a cute girl in my work. I actually didn't know her name, and that was obvious from the interaction.

She had been indicating interest, which I never reciprocated. After that she went very cold.

Now, six weeks later she is warming up. I was away for the middle 4 weeks of that 6 weeks.

The female landscape has changed and I might be interested in banging her.

In your experience, how much of a grudge do women hold from a faux Pas like that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Breh...

Ask her what her name is and relax.

Who cares if she holds a grudge about it. If she's that petty then that's your green light to forget about her anyways.
 
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Its not bad but it all depends on how you handle it imo.

Next time ask her in a confident idgaf if it upset you way.
 
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I once told a girl on our 2nd date, “nice to meet you”. She laughed it off and thought to herself, geez how many girls is this guy dating that he forgot he went out with me a few days ago. We’re actually in a relationship now Lol. I would just bust her balls about it, if she brings it up. Cindy? I’m sorry Mindy? Or was it Linda?! Something along those lines. If she can’t laugh about it then she is uptight.
 
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I established contact. She went out of her way to be friendly just now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Be careful with banging women at work...it usually goes very badly in the end regardless of how it starts
 
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If you DO bang her, don't tell anyone at work, keep everything to yourself.... guys are always running their mouth about what they have going on, and thats what gets them in trouble a lot of times.

I had a friend in highschool who smashed our art teacher, dude ran his mouth telling everyone and ruined it
 
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