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Whats The Fastest Most Convinient Way Of Getting Rid Of Fcuking oneitis?! Fcukin Hate This ****!!!!!!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I know this has been asked TOO many times...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Oneitus is my middle name, and i'm PROUD of it. what... what are you gonna do about it? I think oneitus is a good thing, I know I'm alone in this but I'm the only person with the ballz to deal with heartbreak, it seems you wusses dont' even want to leave the shallow end of the pool.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
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See other women.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
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Your username suits you. Go away.reallyfreakinlost said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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thanks man...but the thing is, this breezy has been fully accepted into my social circle and is now kicking it with them. I really hate to leave this group because they're like family to me. Plus, she's dating one of them. As for contacting her just to talk or hang out, I havent done so in 8 months. Yea...this would be alot easier if she werent around my group. =/Desdinova said:
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Your username suits you better, think about it.squirrels said:
Squirrels have small penises.
Squirrels always run away when they get scared.
Squirrels like nuts in their mouth.
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.......and when you come back, be sure your old oneitis sees your newer, hotter GF....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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yea, i did the dissapering act for a little over a month and have been kicking it with them seldomly since then. I also try to make sure she and my friend shes currently dating arent around as much as possible. But when I do plan to hang out with them when the 2 are around, I make sure to gather courage and read some of the 'self assurance' stuff on this site...yea, still cant help but feel the slight sting when I see her and especially when she's with my friend...ONEITIS SUCKS!!!flexion_ said:
Haven't had that feeling in a while, but I remember it being a good thing. I do agree with some posters when they say its a good thing sometimes. Every human being likes to need something outside of themselves sometimes, but when it inhibits your life that's when it turns bad...
Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
-Cod3r
Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
-Cod3r
time mate, time and chekcing out other girls and approachign other girls
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
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Alright guys, this was really helpful(and funny:crackup: ). Thanks for sharing.lordson said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.