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Whats The Fastest Most Convinient Way Of Getting Rid Of Fcuking oneitis?! Fcukin Hate This ****!!!!!!!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I know this has been asked TOO many times...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Oneitus is my middle name, and i'm PROUD of it. what... what are you gonna do about it? I think oneitus is a good thing, I know I'm alone in this but I'm the only person with the ballz to deal with heartbreak, it seems you wusses dont' even want to leave the shallow end of the pool.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
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See other women.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
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Your username suits you. Go away.reallyfreakinlost said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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thanks man...but the thing is, this breezy has been fully accepted into my social circle and is now kicking it with them. I really hate to leave this group because they're like family to me. Plus, she's dating one of them. As for contacting her just to talk or hang out, I havent done so in 8 months. Yea...this would be alot easier if she werent around my group. =/Desdinova said:
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Your username suits you better, think about it.squirrels said:
Squirrels have small penises.
Squirrels always run away when they get scared.
Squirrels like nuts in their mouth.
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.......and when you come back, be sure your old oneitis sees your newer, hotter GF....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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yea, i did the dissapering act for a little over a month and have been kicking it with them seldomly since then. I also try to make sure she and my friend shes currently dating arent around as much as possible. But when I do plan to hang out with them when the 2 are around, I make sure to gather courage and read some of the 'self assurance' stuff on this site...yea, still cant help but feel the slight sting when I see her and especially when she's with my friend...ONEITIS SUCKS!!!flexion_ said:
Haven't had that feeling in a while, but I remember it being a good thing. I do agree with some posters when they say its a good thing sometimes. Every human being likes to need something outside of themselves sometimes, but when it inhibits your life that's when it turns bad...
Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
-Cod3r
Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
-Cod3r
time mate, time and chekcing out other girls and approachign other girls
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
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Alright guys, this was really helpful(and funny:crackup: ). Thanks for sharing.lordson said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.