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Whats The Fastest Most Convinient Way Of Getting Rid Of Fcuking oneitis?! Fcukin Hate This ****!!!!!!!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I know this has been asked TOO many times...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Oneitus is my middle name, and i'm PROUD of it. what... what are you gonna do about it? I think oneitus is a good thing, I know I'm alone in this but I'm the only person with the ballz to deal with heartbreak, it seems you wusses dont' even want to leave the shallow end of the pool.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
Like I said earlier, sex is only 25% of what girls have to offer.
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See other women.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
That...and get some self-esteem.
One-itis is a misdirected feeling of NEED toward someone. You put all your faith in them and get to a point where you feel that you NEED them to fulfill you. In reality, the only person you should feel one-itis for is the person in the mirror.
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Your username suits you. Go away.reallyfreakinlost said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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thanks man...but the thing is, this breezy has been fully accepted into my social circle and is now kicking it with them. I really hate to leave this group because they're like family to me. Plus, she's dating one of them. As for contacting her just to talk or hang out, I havent done so in 8 months. Yea...this would be alot easier if she werent around my group. =/Desdinova said:
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Your username suits you better, think about it.squirrels said:
Squirrels have small penises.
Squirrels always run away when they get scared.
Squirrels like nuts in their mouth.
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.......and when you come back, be sure your old oneitis sees your newer, hotter GF....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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yea, i did the dissapering act for a little over a month and have been kicking it with them seldomly since then. I also try to make sure she and my friend shes currently dating arent around as much as possible. But when I do plan to hang out with them when the 2 are around, I make sure to gather courage and read some of the 'self assurance' stuff on this site...yea, still cant help but feel the slight sting when I see her and especially when she's with my friend...ONEITIS SUCKS!!!flexion_ said:
Haven't had that feeling in a while, but I remember it being a good thing. I do agree with some posters when they say its a good thing sometimes. Every human being likes to need something outside of themselves sometimes, but when it inhibits your life that's when it turns bad...
Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
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Anyway, I had it bad for one female and after 3 months of solid game, then 1 month of complete AFC crash and burn antics I put my balls on the table and made sure I couldn't fool myself anymore... called her up and said...
"hey want to have sex this wknd ? I'm free after work aroun 3ish ?"
She told me the truth that i NEEDED to hear and that's that me and her would NEVER be fvcking in our lifetimes and that she didn't see me that way and that she was just being friendly... ahhh sweet truth and honesty it sets you free.... I felt bad for litteraly 3 or so days and then invigorated to move on with my life... try it out mate
-Cod3r
time mate, time and chekcing out other girls and approachign other girls
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
think of it this way, if a frined of yours were to offer you 50 dollars to approach a girl, youd do it wouldn t you? becuase you wouldn't care how bad it went or how emabrased you may get, youll still get that 50 dollars and youll be more realxed becuse you can jsut say in your head that your only doing it for the money
just imagine that every time you want to approach, dont even think
and DONT let oppotuniites pass
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Alright guys, this was really helpful(and funny:crackup: ). Thanks for sharing.lordson said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.