"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know its just a hair color but are brunettes naturally more aggressive when going for guys?

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So help a fellow minority out even though I understand it is just hair color we are talking about here.

I have been going out a lot in recent weeks and just putting myself out there a lot in general. The area I am currently in is mostly white girls with sprinkles of Indian, Middle Eastern and Asian girls around. Now among whites, it is a good mix of the typical Northern Euro blondes and southern Euro brunettes.

Just this past weekend I had a co-ed soccer game and this one girl on the other team, dark hair and pony tail, was aggressively tackling me all game and one time even grabbed on to my arm as I was running towards the goal. We made eye contact and she smiled. That's kind of a light experience but I notice at bars, I almost always get approached more by brunettes and they escalate on me hard if they know me.

I had this one French girl (dark hair and tanned skin) put me on the spot almost and say "its like you talk to me but you can't meet with me, are you scared of not being big enough down there to please a woman?". Other times I have had them just jump on me at a bar if they knew me and go for the makeout.

They just seem to escalate a lot faster and are way more touchy feely than their paler white sisters.

I never experience this **** with blonde girls or redheads, they seem so much more subtle and tamed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you should make this an ethnicity thread. Otherwise it's totally pointless


most blondes aren't naturally blonde anyways
 

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Brunettes are commonplace...so they have work a little harder.

Simple supply/demand economics.
 

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Brunettes are commonplace...so they have work a little harder.

Simple supply/demand economics.
lots of guys prefer brunettes, myself included

most blondes are naturally brunettes anyways. Pointless thread
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just ask them if its a wig.
 
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lots of guys prefer brunettes, myself included

most blondes are naturally brunettes anyways. Pointless thread
Ya but most you do have a lot of dirty blondes and light brown haired women though, I was talking more white women with dark hair.
 
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