"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know its just a hair color but are brunettes naturally more aggressive when going for guys?

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So help a fellow minority out even though I understand it is just hair color we are talking about here.

I have been going out a lot in recent weeks and just putting myself out there a lot in general. The area I am currently in is mostly white girls with sprinkles of Indian, Middle Eastern and Asian girls around. Now among whites, it is a good mix of the typical Northern Euro blondes and southern Euro brunettes.

Just this past weekend I had a co-ed soccer game and this one girl on the other team, dark hair and pony tail, was aggressively tackling me all game and one time even grabbed on to my arm as I was running towards the goal. We made eye contact and she smiled. That's kind of a light experience but I notice at bars, I almost always get approached more by brunettes and they escalate on me hard if they know me.

I had this one French girl (dark hair and tanned skin) put me on the spot almost and say "its like you talk to me but you can't meet with me, are you scared of not being big enough down there to please a woman?". Other times I have had them just jump on me at a bar if they knew me and go for the makeout.

They just seem to escalate a lot faster and are way more touchy feely than their paler white sisters.

I never experience this **** with blonde girls or redheads, they seem so much more subtle and tamed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you should make this an ethnicity thread. Otherwise it's totally pointless


most blondes aren't naturally blonde anyways
 

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Brunettes are commonplace...so they have work a little harder.

Simple supply/demand economics.
 

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Brunettes are commonplace...so they have work a little harder.

Simple supply/demand economics.
lots of guys prefer brunettes, myself included

most blondes are naturally brunettes anyways. Pointless thread
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just ask them if its a wig.
 
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lots of guys prefer brunettes, myself included

most blondes are naturally brunettes anyways. Pointless thread
Ya but most you do have a lot of dirty blondes and light brown haired women though, I was talking more white women with dark hair.
 
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