"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just got temporarily laid-off -- why do I feel like I just got a vacation?

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Just got a new job. Starting on August 4th. That's despite having a very bad credit rating. AI was helpful in providing explanations, pep talk and encouraging me, and was overall a good tool. But it is still God who opens doors in the first place and the right timing. I know when AI also doesn't work on closed doors. This is a genuine opening. Mom is very excited about this. Will have to see how the caregiving situation will work at this. AI told me not to tell them about it until a few days before the start date and reach out to their HR. Hoping this works out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just got a new job. Starting on August 4th. That's despite having a very bad credit rating. AI was helpful in providing explanations, pep talk and encouraging me, and was overall a good tool. But it is still God who opens doors in the first place and the right timing. I know when AI also doesn't work on closed doors. This is a genuine opening. Mom is very excited about this. Will have to see how the caregiving situation will work at this. AI told me not to tell them about it until a few days before the start date and reach out to their HR. Hoping this works out.
A man walks down the street, he says, "Why am I soft in the middle now?
Why am I soft in the middle? The rest of my life is so hard
I need a photo-opportunity, I want a shot at redemption
Don't wanna end up a cartoon in a cartoon graveyard"

If you would be my bodyguard, I can be your long-lost pal
I can call you Betty
And Betty, when you call me, you can call me AI
 

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A man walks down the street, he says, "Why am I soft in the middle now?
Why am I soft in the middle? The rest of my life is so hard
I need a photo-opportunity, I want a shot at redemption
Don't wanna end up a cartoon in a cartoon graveyard"

If you would be my bodyguard, I can be your long-lost pal
I can call you Betty
And Betty, when you call me, you can call me AI
shut up, boomer!!! if we wanted your opinion, we would ask. Haven't you broke everything (e.g., housing market) enough already..

:p hahahhahs j/k...
 

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shut up, boomer!!! if we wanted your opinion, we would ask. Haven't you broke everything (e.g., housing market) enough already..

:p hahahhahs j/k...
Don't get me started on the need for a land value tax, Millennial.
 

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In England, the employer should give the individual redundancy money for the amount of time an individual has worked for the organisation/company. Redundancy money is usually paid.

I'm not sure how it works over there.

I hope it all works out well and make wise use of the available time.

Congratulations on your new job.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Doing some caregiving tracking with AI:
Doing a shadow WFH before the Aug 4th start date and logging in caregiving tasks between the shift hours.
1) Yesterday, I had 98 minutes in caregiving tasks during the same overlapping scheduled full time job
2) Today it is like 3.5 hours - 4 hours.
Think I'm a bit worried about how this is going to play out because caregiving is a much bigger disruption than I had anticipated.
Lets see what this AI thing is going help navigate this with HR.
I wonder if we are talking about magic here because the numbers don't make sense.
This thing can only write polished letters to the right people, with my direction of course so it doesn't come across too AIish.
 

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I got a 13 week vacation to be precise...turns out 65 other people got a "vacation" too.

Isn't it great when your employer hands out "vacations" to people because businesss is slow?

I didn't have to even ask for this "vacation time". The weather is so great and look forward to the next few months.

I might also have to look at some other jobs while on "vacation" (but I might get recalled back if I don't).

Believe me when I said this. I tried to put on an act and pretend to be disappointed. I think I sold it.

Obviously I made sure not to thank the employer for the "vacation" as it's a lay-off and had to pretend to be disappointed and measured.

It's party time now! It's 2:06pm and I would be 6 minutes late for work. Oh wait, the whole day is free!
How are unemployment benefits in CA? :)
 

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How are unemployment benefits in CA? :)
I'm getting paid more from EI compared to my recent salary with the previous job. It's a long story how to explain the math.

However, EI may be short-lived because I'm going to be working at a new job.

Once I start working, then EI benefits stop. So long as I don't quit (usually probation doesn't lead to an "at cause" dismissal, so EI would probably be safe there) then the EI benefits would continue after.

However, my goal is not to stay on EI. My goal is to get a job that pays better than the previous job and is helps bring me out of poverty.
There is nothing worst than being in a soul-sucking job, and even if you do well and make allot of sales, the ship is still sinking because they are not paying properly. This new job I'm going to will pay well if I bring home the bacon, and pay commissions percentage, not "dollar store" incentives like the previous job (ie at least when I was doing it and was successful with it).
 

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Just gave the three weeks notice to the old company and synched the start date of the new company to align with the 3 week notice period. This is the first time resigning from a company that laid me off. However, I want to make sure the break is clean.
 

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After starting this new job, I'm now on a PIP, and just saw another lady at this job, whose probation period almost was about to run out, with her account "deactivated"...from my looking at the stats, it appears she even started that morning to work. I have one week on this PIP, but so far have saved enough EI hours for just medical (need 600 hours, crossed that milestone last week). I'm close to the 700 insurable hours. It would be interesting how the next week will unfold. So far it looks like I did ask for overtime today and it looks like I'm coming up with a narrative that they just released fresh leads. I would also have to look at other options such as taking one week off (ie caregiving leave). That would be in the event the following week is not successful (I'm not thinking of taking the actual week on the PIP plan off especially since fresh leads were still recently released).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was working remotely for this one company for 3.5 years. I think I probably clocked in less than 5 hours/week on average of work. Basically a loooong vacation.

The last 6 months of that job I roadtripped the entire country. At the end of that roadtrip I got laid off, and they paid me 3 months of severance + year end bonus.

Just LOOOOL it was one of the happiest moments of my life
 

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The best feeling is that stretch of time you have before you start a new job. If I get a job offer I ALWAYS say I need 3-4 weeks before I can start (because i'm such a good employee, I need more time to settle all my affairs at my current job) then just quit with no notice and enjoy the next 3-4 weeks off. Best way to get a guaranteed vacation.

Alternatively you can just not work and force them to fire you; if its WFH you might be able to get away with not working for months before they fire you.
 

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The best feeling is that stretch of time you have before you start a new job. If I get a job offer I ALWAYS say I need 3-4 weeks before I can start (because i'm such a good employee, I need more time to settle all my affairs at my current job) then just quit with no notice and enjoy the next 3-4 weeks off. Best way to get a guaranteed vacation.

Alternatively you can just not work and force them to fire you; if its WFH you might be able to get away with not working for months before they fire you.
I don't get that first scenario. You're quitting but not getting paid. That's a guaranteed vacation but it's unpaid..
 

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I have still survived...this is the last week before the officialy probation ends. This will result in either confirmation that I'm suited for the role and the job continues beyond this week, or vacation-time again. Either way the probation will be resolved this week. Numbers looking great so far. The PIP is working out and AI is helping develop new scripts for customers and ways of handling the calls that are more psychologically sustainable. Several people were fired during probation so I thought I was going to be next but pulled through each time so far that when I thought it would be my turn...that time never came. Despite the great results, in sales, you are only as good as the last week, and I've had days where I made no sale despite my best efforts. Lets see how this week goes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I got a 13 week vacation to be precise...turns out 65 other people got a "vacation" too.

Isn't it great when your employer hands out "vacations" to people because businesss is slow?

I didn't have to even ask for this "vacation time". The weather is so great and look forward to the next few months.

I might also have to look at some other jobs while on "vacation" (but I might get recalled back if I don't).

Believe me when I said this. I tried to put on an act and pretend to be disappointed. I think I sold it.

Obviously I made sure not to thank the employer for the "vacation" as it's a lay-off and had to pretend to be disappointed and measured.

It's party time now! It's 2:06pm and I would be 6 minutes late for work. Oh wait, the whole day is free!

Unfortunately, I don't think you'll be the first. Hope you're navigating this well though. FYI -there is a light at the end of this tunnel, that's what i'm building towards.

I've been neck deep in AI. Data is showing this wave will reach 50% white collar job impact/replacement via AI by 2032. I was sharing this to our strategy department two years but they thought it was too early. I quit big tech earlier this year because they're just too slow compared to the speed of which AI is moving at. The below data shows 45% by 2032. If you add in what's already been impacted, it will put us at roughly 50%. I shared this data a couple of years and ago, and mentioned internally that teams need to move faster and build faster as RL (recursive learning) will improve to the point where AI will paint the landscape of human civilization and society in a few years. Then it will utilize energy to quickly fill in different pieces of the puzzle. I think people fighting to hang out to trying to out execute AI will be in for a rude awakening when they realize this thing called AI never sleeps and thinks 1000x faster than you do and is trained on everything that humans have documented.

I'm building a tool specifically for those who are or will be laid off and are tired of being employed or having their income controlled by a 3rd party corporation and or government. Use personalized AI agents to help those laid off build a unique and defensible revenue stream that doesn't rely on an outside corporation/third party, have it take 20% of your time (instead of like 80%) and produce 3x-10x the income. I don't think money will be too relevant in the future so the goal is to make a bunch of it as fast as possible with the short period of time where it is relevant.

You can check it out at Raya.ai and happy to give you a walkthrough.

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