This is a very weird thing to post but I wonder if anyone has had a similar situation. Basically occurred due to me being very drunk and miscalculating.. It is very bruised and swollen, don't know how long it will take to heal (have been to the er about it and no surgery required). Would you have sex with others in this situation and how would you explain it? I'll likely have to wait a bit anyway but the bruising is pretty bad and could be there for a while.