When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's not co-dependancy. That's the joy of each others' company. It becomes co-dependancy when the two of you feel the NEED to be together.
I'm really hoping that this comment wasn't directed at me. I've been with my woman 9 times longer than you've been with yours.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm not talking about this thread in particular, but all your recent threads. They're very lovey dovey, and the infatuation that you have shown ever since you met this girl does not match up with the behaviour of a guy who has been with 25 women because by that time, you would have experianced girls behaving this way with you several times and become somewhat desensitized to it. It's just an observation.
No...I have..im just expressing myself....I do go overboard with it...being at the office 50 hours a week can do that to you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
where did u go?
Ohhhhh when a guy says "no one knows what its like" or "its diffrent between me and her" thats when you know hes turning into your typical nice guy. It doesnt matter some girls like nice guys yours sounds like she does. I saw your reffer to her as a church going nerd. Then yeh she might be into the whole nice guy thing lucky for you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.