Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's not co-dependancy. That's the joy of each others' company. It becomes co-dependancy when the two of you feel the NEED to be together.
I'm really hoping that this comment wasn't directed at me. I've been with my woman 9 times longer than you've been with yours.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not talking about this thread in particular, but all your recent threads. They're very lovey dovey, and the infatuation that you have shown ever since you met this girl does not match up with the behaviour of a guy who has been with 25 women because by that time, you would have experianced girls behaving this way with you several times and become somewhat desensitized to it. It's just an observation.
No...I have..im just expressing myself....I do go overboard with it...being at the office 50 hours a week can do that to you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
where did u go?
Ohhhhh when a guy says "no one knows what its like" or "its diffrent between me and her" thats when you know hes turning into your typical nice guy. It doesnt matter some girls like nice guys yours sounds like she does. I saw your reffer to her as a church going nerd. Then yeh she might be into the whole nice guy thing lucky for you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.