Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

I have cancer

Quiksilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2006
Messages
2,813
Reaction score
55
Warboss Alex said:
but what's important is that you've caught it early and it's being treated.. in a year's time you'll be back to your best and you'll just look at this as a minor pothole. :)
Actually these are the potholes that can swallow your car if you're not careful :D

wolf116 said:
I wish I knew why this sh!t would happen to a fitness fanatic.
You're looking at it backwards dude. The life you chose to live and the path you took--in regards to your health--gave you an excellent chance to beat cancer.

And look at the perspective/psychological strength it's given you... Those things are hard to come by in a monotonous and mediocre life. It's still to early to say, but I wouldn't be surprised if in 10-15 years you'll look back and think that this was the best thing to ever happen to you(in a backhanded way, of course).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Everything I read on health and fitness is saying sh!t like, eating broccoli gives you a 30% reduced risk of cancer, berries every day 20% less likely, yellow veggies 10% less, omega 3's and fresh fish 20%, WPC 20%, eggs, green tea, not drinking or smoking, fresh fruit, turmeric etc. Exercise every day reduces cancer risk, growing up in the country reduces cancer risk, cooking in cast iron reduces cancer risk, having sex reduces risk, having no cancers in your family tree reduces risk.
I should have a -500% chance of getting cancer.

You can't help but wonder if eating too much healthy food and exercising too much can give you cancer as well. lol. I know it's my cr@ppy genetics that caused this, but who knows if it could have been prevented if I just took it easy on my weakling genetics.

Lots of people who get cured from cancer can be some of the fattest, laziest, and most negative people in the world. Cancer doesn't give a cr@p. Science, medicine and doctors cure cancer not food. I've just been reading that too much vitamin C and antioxidants can reduce the effectiveness of chemo after I'm been hammering them down this whole time.

I'm confident of a total cure because my odds are as good as cancer odds get.


Cancer may just be one of the best things that happen to me tho, you could be right. When I'm cured I'll be living a totally different life then before. I'm fixing up an old van and I'm going to become nomadic. Screw uni and desk jobs, it's a waste of life. Hopefully I'll be training in a different gym every month.
 

Flyer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
393
Reaction score
2
Location
Sydney
Hey Wolf,

Glad to hear that the treatment is doing well.

I wouldnt give much time thinking about the genentics thing..

It's like poker, you cannot change the hand that was dealt. But you can play the game and win. And I think you have already overcome that.

Be ALIVE (as opposed to just living)
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Yeah, I went a bit stupid with the poor me cr@p in the previous post.
I'll be creating a training journal soon enough.
 

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
think of it this way: you did everything right from a nutritional sense, if you hadn't, maybe you wouldn't have been able to get through this as well as you have done.

how many people with cancer can say they got over it in in less than 4 months and were back weightlifting soon after it? (especially if their genetics were prone to it)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

david99

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2008
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Wolf, you are an inspiration.

Keep up the good work! :up:

All the best.
 

BeyondCharm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2008
Messages
282
Reaction score
11
Way to be positive and stay focussed. God bless you wolf, your life is only truly beginning now.
 

spesmilitis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2006
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
6
Nutrition can help alot, but some factors are just out of your control. In Montreal there is an area where women get a really high incidence of breast cancer. No one knows why, it may be the pollution or something else. In silicon valley, it has some of the most toxic water from all the silicon manufacturing. It passes the EPA, but it is more toxic than most of the other areas in America. You can control everything you do but you can't control all the factors around you, esp. the ones you don't know about.
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
It's good to see you're checking up on me spes. Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

eatgel

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2008
Messages
176
Reaction score
3
ye merry christmas wolf hang in there you can do it! make you sure you smoke that weed good " puff" " puff" goodluck buddy!
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Thanks guys, All the cancer is gone and I'll reach a full remission for sure.

But... they added an extra 2 months to the chemo because I was so advanced. I've got about 4 months left. yay

Big thanks to EFFORT and Rounder for getting me into and helping me out with online poker. I would have lost my mind otherwise.
 

coolf1r3

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2008
Messages
121
Reaction score
0
Location
Reppin' that 860 in Hartford, CT!
YEAH MAN!!! A FULL REMISSION?!?! CONGRATS!!


If I'm ever in your area, we are getting a celebratory drink.:cool:


lol @ me being 17 and talking about drinking with Mr. Ironman
 

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
Hey man i'm really glad to hear this! Sorry i haven't sweat you in awhile i've been on sort of a bad run, but things are getting better. I'll sweat you again soon.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Flyer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
393
Reaction score
2
Location
Sydney
wolf116 said:
Thanks guys, All the cancer is gone and I'll reach a full remission for sure.

But... they added an extra 2 months to the chemo because I was so advanced. I've got about 4 months left. yay

Big thanks to EFFORT and Rounder for getting me into and helping me out with online poker. I would have lost my mind otherwise.
Glad to hear wolf. Lots to look forward to after this.
 

Impact

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2005
Messages
205
Reaction score
1
Location
UK
Man, I don't know if you heard of it, but in the movie THE SECRET a woman tells how she was diagnosed with cancer and after 2 months or so of watching funny movies, programs that made her laugh and feel good, she got rid of cancer. Another example given by Tony Robbins in one of his programs (I don't remember which one it was, maybe living health) where he says how a woman got rid of the toxins in her body, which eliminated the cancer cells.

Check it out, I'm sure that you will find a way to beat it, the world is full of examples where people won against deseases that were believed to be uncurable.

good luck
 

It's-Me

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2008
Messages
304
Reaction score
2
Location
Tampa Bay
wolf116 said:
Lots of people who get cured from cancer can be some of the fattest, laziest, and most negative people in the world. Cancer doesn't give a cr@p. Science, medicine and doctors cure cancer not food. I've just been reading that too much vitamin C and antioxidants can reduce the effectiveness of chemo after I'm been hammering them down this whole time.
I disagree. There has been stories of people who have survived cancer by eating healthy.

Chemo kills every damn cell in the body part it's used.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top