Capt.America
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That's why I can't be successful with girls ... What's the next step the dj bible focuses mostly on improving for girls but U wanna do it for myself
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I have abandonment issues
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tictac
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You have decided what and labeled the 'problem', it's yours to get rid of.
NeverChase
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Acknowledge the problem, feel it, but don't let it kick in to control your behavior.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Is it because they left you in that ice for so long?
Capt.America
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But how I realized this for long ever since I had trouble with my gf and didn't wsnt to leave Her... I work out and still yearn to Still have girl by side to be happy with .
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
Keep improving until you can sincerely make yourself proud. When you get there, raise the bar some more, and continue your efforts. Along the way, feel free to allow a girl into your life who compliments this process or at least does not not disrupt it.Capt.America said:
taht is the first problem I see you still consider you need a girl/woman/wife in your life to be happy, and you forogt no one can give you happiness, if you want to be happy build what you consider a happy life, what job you want to do, what house you want to do, what skills you want to have learn what you wish for?
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality