Capt.America
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That's why I can't be successful with girls ... What's the next step the dj bible focuses mostly on improving for girls but U wanna do it for myself
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have abandonment issues
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Tictac
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You have decided what and labeled the 'problem', it's yours to get rid of.
NeverChase
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Acknowledge the problem, feel it, but don't let it kick in to control your behavior.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Is it because they left you in that ice for so long?
Capt.America
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But how I realized this for long ever since I had trouble with my gf and didn't wsnt to leave Her... I work out and still yearn to Still have girl by side to be happy with .
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Between_The_Lines
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Keep improving until you can sincerely make yourself proud. When you get there, raise the bar some more, and continue your efforts. Along the way, feel free to allow a girl into your life who compliments this process or at least does not not disrupt it.Capt.America said:
taht is the first problem I see you still consider you need a girl/woman/wife in your life to be happy, and you forogt no one can give you happiness, if you want to be happy build what you consider a happy life, what job you want to do, what house you want to do, what skills you want to have learn what you wish for?
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality