Capt.America
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That's why I can't be successful with girls ... What's the next step the dj bible focuses mostly on improving for girls but U wanna do it for myself
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I have abandonment issues
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tictac
Banned
You have decided what and labeled the 'problem', it's yours to get rid of.
NeverChase
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Acknowledge the problem, feel it, but don't let it kick in to control your behavior.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
Don't fight it with rationalization, it will make it much worse. Just be aware and don't be too anxious or depressed about it.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Is it because they left you in that ice for so long?
Capt.America
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But how I realized this for long ever since I had trouble with my gf and didn't wsnt to leave Her... I work out and still yearn to Still have girl by side to be happy with .
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
Keep improving until you can sincerely make yourself proud. When you get there, raise the bar some more, and continue your efforts. Along the way, feel free to allow a girl into your life who compliments this process or at least does not not disrupt it.Capt.America said:
taht is the first problem I see you still consider you need a girl/woman/wife in your life to be happy, and you forogt no one can give you happiness, if you want to be happy build what you consider a happy life, what job you want to do, what house you want to do, what skills you want to have learn what you wish for?
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality
want to have a farm and work the land? do so,
have a ranch raise horses? ok go on,
have your own bussiness? go ahead
wanna learn how to burp the alphabet? do it
its something you need to ask yourself, kind you already know the answers but you are too afraid to act on then to make thena reality