"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I hate coworkers who hook up with office sluts and think they are alpha males
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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What do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.
@orbit123 you catching this thread?
She was hot single mom with kids and now fat with kids I have standards girls who don't smoke excessively drink excessively and have cellulite
Yeah I am. Very interesting
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
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To the op, the woman like that simply loses sexual and romantic value due to her lowly behaviour. You need to be confident enough to hold internal frame knowing you are above that. Men should be on your side but you will find many lowly men who cannot be above, who are weak enough to want to be the fourth, and they will simply say to you that sex is all that is valueble in the world.
At the moment we are at or near rock-bottom. In the near future this type of culture will start to die as the Alpha Male system works it was from Top to Bottom in society.
In todays world Alpha guys are not getting laid the most. This is simply a fact. It will just take some time for the new system to spread.
I agree with that to some extent I found this website in the late 90s seems like a different world online dating was a novelty back then