You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.Anyone had experience like this was had a hot female coworker hard aid hook up with three guys I could have been the fourth but I have standards anyone been through this post or pre-covid?
She was hot single mom with kids and now fat with kids I have standards girls who don't smoke excessively drink excessively and have celluliteWhat do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.
@orbit123 you catching this thread?
Yeah I am. Very interestingWhat do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.
@orbit123 you catching this thread?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NopeYeah, who are we kidding. She ain't going to be a 20-something single childless hb9-10 doing that in an office, lol! But if she was would you have been the fourth?
I agree with that to some extent I found this website in the late 90s seems like a different world online dating was a novelty back thenI hate men who are getting laid, dont know about Game, and think they are Alpha Males.
To the op, the woman like that simply loses sexual and romantic value due to her lowly behaviour. You need to be confident enough to hold internal frame knowing you are above that. Men should be on your side but you will find many lowly men who cannot be above, who are weak enough to want to be the fourth, and they will simply say to you that sex is all that is valueble in the world.
At the moment we are at or near rock-bottom. In the near future this type of culture will start to die as the Alpha Male system works it was from Top to Bottom in society.
In todays world Alpha guys are not getting laid the most. This is simply a fact. It will just take some time for the new system to spread.