"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I hate coworkers who hook up with office sluts and think they are alpha males
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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What do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.
@orbit123 you catching this thread?
She was hot single mom with kids and now fat with kids I have standards girls who don't smoke excessively drink excessively and have cellulite
Yeah I am. Very interesting
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
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To the op, the woman like that simply loses sexual and romantic value due to her lowly behaviour. You need to be confident enough to hold internal frame knowing you are above that. Men should be on your side but you will find many lowly men who cannot be above, who are weak enough to want to be the fourth, and they will simply say to you that sex is all that is valueble in the world.
At the moment we are at or near rock-bottom. In the near future this type of culture will start to die as the Alpha Male system works it was from Top to Bottom in society.
In todays world Alpha guys are not getting laid the most. This is simply a fact. It will just take some time for the new system to spread.
I agree with that to some extent I found this website in the late 90s seems like a different world online dating was a novelty back then