"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I hate coworkers who hook up with office sluts and think they are alpha males
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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What do you mean that you have standards? You mean in terms of morality, or in terms that the girl wasn't hot, or that the set-up sounded sick? I think this was my fantasy about looking for work, but as we know, porn and mental sex-fantasies can become a disgusting thing you regret very quickly in real life.
@orbit123 you catching this thread?
She was hot single mom with kids and now fat with kids I have standards girls who don't smoke excessively drink excessively and have cellulite
Yeah I am. Very interesting
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
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To the op, the woman like that simply loses sexual and romantic value due to her lowly behaviour. You need to be confident enough to hold internal frame knowing you are above that. Men should be on your side but you will find many lowly men who cannot be above, who are weak enough to want to be the fourth, and they will simply say to you that sex is all that is valueble in the world.
At the moment we are at or near rock-bottom. In the near future this type of culture will start to die as the Alpha Male system works it was from Top to Bottom in society.
In todays world Alpha guys are not getting laid the most. This is simply a fact. It will just take some time for the new system to spread.
I agree with that to some extent I found this website in the late 90s seems like a different world online dating was a novelty back then