From my late teens until around 31 I had a lot of attention from women. I didn't know what to say and never took my chances. A lot of chance encounters I never took.
I was called sexy and hot.
One time at the park when I was 27, there were these three attractive women around 19 years old deliberately by choice decided to come towards me and said I am sexy amongst themselves as they were close, I was preparing for sports practice so I didn't nothing.
Another time I was going to my train depot and I had to catch my train, there were two younger women who was dancing towards me and danced to me, I didn't do nothing as I was catching the train.
I really regret not taking my chances.
I'm in my mid 30s now and in the last few years, absolutely nothing. On dating apps, I only get swiped by an attractive women once per month, otherwise they are below average looking women who swipe me. I don't mind simple looking women, but I don't get ok looking women or even simple looking women swipe me.
A lot of below average looking women who swipe me on dating apps.
I relied on chance encounters as many of it happened before as you read.
If I was in my 20s and go to a club, id probably expect women to make eye contact with me first, then I'd go in.
I don't get any eye contact or chance encounters for the last few years as I used to.
I've been very lonely and isolated in the last few years.
I feel depressed as I get older.
I feel very very sad.
I don't know what to do.
I was called sexy and hot.
One time at the park when I was 27, there were these three attractive women around 19 years old deliberately by choice decided to come towards me and said I am sexy amongst themselves as they were close, I was preparing for sports practice so I didn't nothing.
Another time I was going to my train depot and I had to catch my train, there were two younger women who was dancing towards me and danced to me, I didn't do nothing as I was catching the train.
I really regret not taking my chances.
I'm in my mid 30s now and in the last few years, absolutely nothing. On dating apps, I only get swiped by an attractive women once per month, otherwise they are below average looking women who swipe me. I don't mind simple looking women, but I don't get ok looking women or even simple looking women swipe me.
A lot of below average looking women who swipe me on dating apps.
I relied on chance encounters as many of it happened before as you read.
If I was in my 20s and go to a club, id probably expect women to make eye contact with me first, then I'd go in.
I don't get any eye contact or chance encounters for the last few years as I used to.
I've been very lonely and isolated in the last few years.
I feel depressed as I get older.
I feel very very sad.
I don't know what to do.
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