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i think i might be too rude with these neg hits lol.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
exactly. u need to find a line of wat u could get away with and wat is jus outright rude and stupid. basically, anything gross is jus rude, so dont neghit stuff like that. stick to non personal things, man. trust me, it works better than makin fun of her bathroom habitswe all eat food said:i think i might be too rude with these neg hits lol.
its when u tease a girl about something she wears, says, does, looks etc. not meant to be mean, but funny. makes the girl laugh and see ur not a pvssy, while at the same time knocking down her B!tch ego, lol. read some post about them to learn how to do it.Bizzaro said:'You sit when you pee'
at first it sounded stupid, but its funny in a stupid sort of halarious way. lol
am new to the phrase 'neg hit' whats that?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
yeah... exactly. all i said was quit putting labels on things that arent what they are.GaryUranga said:people sometimes take the theory to heart, the original comment wasnt a "neg hit" it didnt mean anything then people went crazy about it, it doesnt have to be perfect to work
Then why are you here buddy?BBX said:this site is bull
i thought this thread was done. a friend with benefits means nothing bro. u didnt win, u jus got some slut to give u pvssy. great jobwe all eat food said:GUESS WAHT GUYS
anyways i got some follow up, so my friend broke up with the girl that slapped me. I saw her at the mall alst night and hung out with her and her friends. Now since i didnt give a fluck, i decided to be a DJ and sexual and ****, and now she told me that im her friends with benefits, and if i ever want sex i should just call her.
hahah so i win. tellin girls to sit down when you pee gets you punane
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.