"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I got real drunk last night.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
Thats how most of my stories start
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mahon83050
Banned
Yea sometimes. I noticed hard liquour tends to be alot more dangerous than beer though. Hard liquor is unpredictable and hits you like a brick wall, while beer is more gradual.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Not if you drink like I do.
I had a few drinks last night but fortunatly there was a nice hotel room for me to stay in foor the night
wow does champagne go right to your head!
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I was so freaking hammered last night, its not even funny. But yet, I'm doing it again in 2 weeks when college is back in. Hooray for drunken fun.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I've done some stupid things drunkt though that made me look like a moron.
Ive broken my elbow putting on a pair of pants.
I've also swallowed a mouthful of chewing tobacco and puked EVERYWHERE in front of 20 ppl.
Thank God I gave up drinking and using drugs.
It's all in moderation. When I feel like I can drink resposibly, I'll start to drink socially again. I don't find it as fun getting ****faced anymore, but to each's own.
Just don't drink and drive if you're going to get drunk.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
LOL...That reminds me of a time where I woke up real sore, and turned around and had rugburn from my ass to my shoulders...
uess my pants fell down while my buddies were dragging me back to my room. LOL. **** I've had some good times.
I'm easier on my body now though. A LOT easier.