"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I got real drunk last night.
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
Thats how most of my stories start
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mahon83050
Banned
Yea sometimes. I noticed hard liquour tends to be alot more dangerous than beer though. Hard liquor is unpredictable and hits you like a brick wall, while beer is more gradual.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Not if you drink like I do.
I had a few drinks last night but fortunatly there was a nice hotel room for me to stay in foor the night
wow does champagne go right to your head!
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I was so freaking hammered last night, its not even funny. But yet, I'm doing it again in 2 weeks when college is back in. Hooray for drunken fun.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I've done some stupid things drunkt though that made me look like a moron.
Ive broken my elbow putting on a pair of pants.
I've also swallowed a mouthful of chewing tobacco and puked EVERYWHERE in front of 20 ppl.
Thank God I gave up drinking and using drugs.
It's all in moderation. When I feel like I can drink resposibly, I'll start to drink socially again. I don't find it as fun getting ****faced anymore, but to each's own.
Just don't drink and drive if you're going to get drunk.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
LOL...That reminds me of a time where I woke up real sore, and turned around and had rugburn from my ass to my shoulders...
uess my pants fell down while my buddies were dragging me back to my room. LOL. **** I've had some good times.
I'm easier on my body now though. A LOT easier.